Have you seen this TED talk by Lizzie Velasquez? It’s like duh, but also a great reminder on perspective. So this is the focus to have in life. What defines me? Ironically, since I’m referencing this talk by the woman who physically cannot gain weight, if you were to examine the contents of my thoughts and my blog and my activities I define myself by how much I weigh and how big my arms look in pictures. That’s not what I want. Other things define me as well, but really what has defined me to ME has been how fat or thin I feel.
And now that that’s not true… what defines me?